When people who have been involved with married men finally move on, they often regret having wasted the time in a dead-end affair.(c) Mark Goulston Blog Author, you take an almost too extreme stand against affairs.When a guy doesn’t confirm the date, he is – for all intents and purposes – showing you that he really doesn’t care about the date. A confident guy will not tolerate it too long and you will find yourself alone again. A guy’s character is not based on the amount of money he makes. He will question why you are so into him so early on in the date. If you are positive that it isn’t right, don’t avoid him. If he did care, he would confirm the date and tell you that he was looking forward to seeing you. Do anything except wait by the phone to see if he calls. He might have forgotten the date or made other plans. However, if you are unavoidably late, call him to let him know you are running late. Asking a guy for his W2 is basically asking the guy never to call you again. Instead, feel free to tell him you had a nice time when the date ends. Don’t allow him to call several times and leave messages hoping he will go away or stop calling. Call him back, but soon into the conversation say, “I had a nice time, but I just don’t think we are right for each other.” The truth will hurt, but it’s the way it must be done. Ladies, be honest: when your sex life becomes a little humdrum, out comes the mental catalogue of all the ways your partner isn’t quite measuring up.Guys tend to get a bad rap when it comes to understanding women’s bodies and what turns us on, making them easy targets in the blame game when sexual satisfaction starts to wane.
“They used to think that women are less interested in sexual activity and I don’t want to say that anymore.Another reason people play games is to get something you want that you wouldn't likely get if you played it straight.For example, telling someone you love him or her so they will sleep with you, and then not calling them again.Playing it cool and not getting too involved may make you feel safe, but you risk coming across as aloof or remote, and may turn the other person off.Balance between demonstrating interest and maintaining your composure is best.