It's because of this urban legend that has gone around forever.Based upon this rule, the only time that a man can date a woman his own age is when he's 14 years old (because half of 14 is seven, and seven plus seven is 14).So the ripe old age of 14 -- the age when you still have pimples, are as insecure as can be and are unlikely to get anything more than a kiss from a woman your own age -- is the only time when you can enjoy dating a woman your own age? Add seven to that, so you can date a 12-year-old -- an older woman"?What about if your 10-year-old looks at you and says, "I'm ready to date, Dad"? There is so much a 12-year-old can teach a 10-year-old -- advanced coloring, advanced texting, and so many other important life skills. You're 20 years old and, under this rule, you can date a 17-year-old. There you are in college, and you get to go back to high school again to find a girlfriend.How wonderful it felt to have an "adult" who valued our opinion; thought we were not just cute but interesting. I was wearing a Bundeswehr tank top I'd gotten at an Army supply store and faded jeans, a thrift shop crucifix around my neck. But as we sat there together in the sunshine, the wine buzzing my head, I suddenly felt … All I had was my instinct and discomfort — a bad gut feeling. When I write novels, there is always a clear trajectory: the beginning, middle, climax, and end.My best friend was 14 when she fell in love with a 21 year old. My friend's older boyfriend was close with a guy I'll call T. My mother, spying him from the front window, asked me how old he was."I don't know," I said. After awhile, my friend and her boyfriend disappeared, leaving T. With real life, however, and memory especially, it is harder to keep things so neat and organized. In the first, I snuck out of the house with a guy friend who lived down the street. My friend came back, we went home and I slid back into my bed. The second incident I remember happened when he was giving me a ride home.My 14 year old is dating and is 'in love' with her 21 year old boyfriend. I am not interfering but she asked me to help her and tell her what I think. Is it wrong for someone my age to date a 21 year old? I have many female friends who have been with an older guy and to this day only one of them hasnt been hurt or worse... My 14 year old is dating and is 'in love' with her 21 year old boyfriend. I am not interfering but she asked me to help her and tell her what I think. Is it wrong for someone my age to date a 21 year old? I don't want to upset her I just want to help. Quite a lot of girls now do this as they think that it makes them look better and more mature being with someone a lot older and not thinking about the real picture of why the older person is with such a young girl, It is a hard topic as to not offend someone however come to terms with this... why would an person of such age be with a young female?
There was safety in the shadows, but also a kind of darkness. " my friend whispered as we walked back to the car with the guys a few steps ahead."It just felt strange," I told her. Just like that, you lose your footing, and you're in over your head. He noticed my sudden distance and pouted, unsettling to see in an adult.By the way, he is definitely not a pedophile as his last relationships were all his age.We have both agreed to wait until i am the age of consent (16) to tell people but we are both so happy with the relationship and would love to be able to just go out together like normal people. By the way, he is definitely not a pedophile as his last relationships were all his age.Problem is shes only just turned 17 about a month ago and i am 20 now, turning 21 early next year.I know its all fine and legal and all but it still doesnt quite seem right, just wondered what others thought.