It’s not something I’m proud of, but more than a decade ago, I led a double life for a short period of time.

So is he dating someone else while pursuing you at the same time? [Read: How to have the perfect start to a new relationship] He pays by cash Now this could mean he either has a lot of money in his hands or a built-in atm in his butt.He would say, "I love you, please wait for me," "I will marry you because you're the woman I've waited for all of my life." I wanted to believe him but I knew there was something that I couldn't put my finger on. She introduced herself and wanted to know what I was doing with her husband. Much research has been done on infidelity to give explanation for the reasons why people cheat and lie to the other woman or other man about the state of their marriage.I won't try to give credence to the reasons why men or women cheat. Vicki, I've been in a relationship with a married man for five years.I can't believe I've accepted this for so long, but I'm confused and I don't know what to believe. Sometimes he could be so attentive, but other times he was unavailable for days or weeks. Vicki, I feel like I want to get even with him because I'm so hurt.