Last month, I wrote to two men that I was very interested in.
The good news is that both of them wrote me back and I have been seeing both for the past 2-3 weeks.
The biggest element of my quandary is deciding whether I should tell both girls about the fact that I want to see other people.
If I do, it might work out better, but I could lose them both if they don't like the arrangement or if they find out if I tried to keep it from them.
Despite knowing I should play the field more, I haven't been able to bring myself to do it. I could tell I liked her because I got into a good mood whenever she texted/talked to me.
While I was hanging out with Pam, I went to a party and met a friend of a friend named Nicole.
Essentially they advised me to "see other people."I've never been comfortable with the idea of "seeing other people."Here are pros and cons of seeing other people: Incomplete projects strewn around is a hallmark of the ADD-afflicted person's life. Considering I have trouble following through with one girl, how much trouble will I have following through and managing two different relationships?Things have been going well, and I give a lot of credit to what I have learned from your book, emails and this site.However, this is not something I have ever done before and I am having a hard time with the idea of juggling. My question deals with the etiquette of online dating.I am a professional in my mid-30s with a terrific career (that probably consumed too much time) and a history of long, rewarding relationships that have for one reason or other not ended in marriage.