If a Shanghai girl tells you she likes you, loves or misses you, you need to bear in mind that it has a much greater and significant sense than in the Western world.
It seems there is no seduction play here, the guy has to be very direct, get a number, a few messages, meeting, then a few minutes of chatting and go to bed... When I meet a guy I'd like to be in a relationship with, I'd like to take it slow a bit.
Meeting girl’s parents in China is equivalent to announcing of the engagement in the Western countries.
So, if you don’t intend to marry a Shanghai girl, by all means avoid seeing her parents.
So we’ve gotten a few questions lately about dating in China.
It’s an interesting topic that hits on a lot of key cultural touchpoints, so I want to take a few minutes to talk about this.