then you need to get very, very good at the game of love!It's not a pretty picture." We just love it when MEN say, "I don't want a woman who plays games." We just smile and think, "Yeah, right. I have literally spent a lifetime studying the subject of MEN - and WOMEN - everything from flirting to attracting, chasing, being chased, falling in love, and why men and women fall in love. That same man who never calls you back is quite capable of falling head over heels in love with a woman who makes him feel an overwhelming desire to win her. If you're afraid to reach out and grab what you want, then "Hard To Get" is not for you. You do that by following the secrets that have been handed down for generations!What men think they want and what they really want can be two different things! Not being hard to get means that you get to Emotional First Base long before he does. I know what it takes to win a man's heart, and my advice has worked for literally thousands of women who write me every day to tell me about it! This happens even with guys who say they are "afraid of commitment." Somehow when a certain kind of woman comes along, these guys miraculously lose their fear of commitment because they are so busy trying to get this woman into their lives - determined, in fact." Men don't always know what they really want - until they meet a woman who turns their world upside down. When he realizes that you are there before him - he will start backing away from you - and break your heart. Many people are against the idea of playing hard to get. I'd like to go out with you and in about a year, we'll get married." She says, "Great! But what does it take to become that kind of woman in your man's life?
"Women derive more benefit from playing hard-to-get because it allows them to test men out and increase the demand men place on them," says study author Peter Jonason, Ph D, an assistant professor of psychology at the University of Western Sydney in Australia. I don't play games, but I have experienced some guys who play games. This attitude is just too funny.....vvvvv...thank you for clarifying that openhorizons... I can only speak for myself here: I don't play hard to get. :)) :)) So OP..interpretation of your post is that since we are online dating means something is wrong with us and we are apparently so desperate that we should just throw ourselves at any man who contacts us??According to the research, one potential benefit of playing hard-to-get is attracting a higher-quality mate with the greatest level of commitment for a long-term relationship.In the study, published in the European Journal of Personality, psychology researchers ran four different experiments to determine how and why people play hard-to-get and if or when it works in attracting a mate.