Facebook is great because it let's us keep tabs on all our friends and stay connected to people we would normally see only once a year at a Christmas party.
Except when your BF is on there and he's messaging other girls and letting them write on his wall and you'd with he'd just stop: I have a question about my boyfriend of 3 years. My boyfriend has these 3 certain girls on his friend list; he keeps liking their photos and giving them compliments!
He's not sneaking over to these girls' houses and telling them how great he thinks that photo of them in Hawaii was, and then whispering in her ear how much he would also like to try parasailing.
And whether intentional or not, it's a landmine for engaging with the opposite sex.Being able to relate to all kinds of people is a good thing. The question, of course, has to do with exactly how a person relates to people outside the relationship.Nearly everyone would agree that it’s fine, and even important, to have friends who are both male and female.It would easy to demonize your boyfriend as evil, but you bother to mention that he is sociable, that he praises your beauty, and that he wants to marry you.Which is why his over-the-top leering is so highly inappropriate….