In my online dating profile preferences, I’d always make the age range between “my age 1” and 45, as if going out with someone my age or one year younger were some kind of abhorrent crime. I thought they’d match my maturity level, would “have their shit together” and would, in general, be better partners for me, the self-professed “old soul”.Nairaland Forum / Nairaland / General / Family / Ladies, Would You Date/marry A Guy; 10 Years Older Than You?(photo) (6316 Views) Ladies ; Would You leave Your Husband In A Place Like This (photo) / When You Refuse To Take Your Child Along With You...(photo) / How To Date, Marry & Fit Into The Life Of An Educated Professional Man (1) (2) (3) (4) kashamyanat: Oh my God, I luv this trend. My hubby is 12yrs older and I always get away with alot of things.You may need to start skipping the traditional Thursday through Sunday bar scene with the girls to appease his lifestyle.While this may seem like a much-needed break, there is potential for you to end up at a home-dinner party socializing with a group that may tell you about their son or daughter that is “just about your age.” Awkward. Dating someone 20 to 30 years older than you means you’re probably going to see time take its toll in many ways.And y’all know I’m stubborn and refuse to just Though he be but young, he is smart.Probably seems obvious to you that age isn’t everything to do with intelligence, but it was something I hadn’t considered. ) He doesn’t seem to have baggage that scares him away from wanting future-things, like to get married and have a family.
It made sense: they have good jobs, they’re settled and own homes, and they’ve finally gotten to the point in their lives where they know how to treat a woman.
Last year, I realized that maybe I should start having stricter standards for who I’ll date.
You know, require that a man own a home, have a job, stuff like that.
” whenever he made a particularly funny joke, saw something interesting, or really just anytime he felt like it. I could not deal with Sam’s wardrobe, and as much as I know all 42-year-old men don’t dress as badly as he did, I’m still sort of traumatized.
Being around him was like reliving all of the most mediocre catch-phrases of 1992. He probably never dressed well anyway, but he somehow stopped updating his look around the time that ribbed turtlenecks and Rocawear cargo jeans were hot, and he’s not the only man of his age that I’ve seen rocking pants that look inspired by the Michael Jordan Jean Collection. When I first met Will, 42, he admitted that he needed a haircut, an admission that wasn’t necessary because it was clear that he did.