He cancels plans, he goes MIA for days at a time, he acts distant.At the root of it, the same sense of insecurity that made the guy obsessed with finding out if you like him is now scaring him into thinking that you’re going to “take his freedom away.” Generally speaking, most guys have a fear of being “trapped” in a relationship, but in this particular scenario you’re dealing with a guy who’s actions are especially dictated by avoiding unpleasant situations as a primary motivator.By compiling this list I’m not suggesting that these are the only keys to being a happy couple, I’m simply shedding light on some common habits that can make all the difference in the world.A great deal of happiness in our relationships is due to intentional activity.Happy conversations are the difference between a happy relationship and a boring one.
But every now and then, you do need to bring the excitement and life into a relationship by talking about the right things.
I do not intend to defend a certain set of rules, or refute any.
Neither will I pretend like I have the best advice, since I am not even married.
But if you don't watch your mouth, sometimes the ugly truth comes out in hurtful—not helpful––ways.
Though you may have legitimate concerns to express or issues to bring up, doing so in a harsh manner can be damaging in the long term, to both your husband's feelings and your relationship.