We are creative and imagining things is like a drug to us.
It is next to impossible to lie to us because of our extraverted intuition and our ability to recall and analyze; we can pick out any inconsistency in a story.
After all, why are we so strange when it comes to talking back?
Forgive us, for we are so in love, and so transcendentally interested in you, that we find time a treasure too precious to spend away from listening to you.
If you’re an INTP personality type, you’re probably reading this with a graciously raised eyebrow that signifies your skepticism. Aren’t we just wandering mosquito-like souls in search of knowledge and a quiet corner infused with the comforting scent of freshly published books? When you love an INTP, things will not always make sense.
But all the seemingly nonsensical moments you spend together will color your perceptions of love and romance, and here is why: No, as in, we really listen.
If you need a product or service, why not go to another INTP?? And because these conflicts lead to frightening emotional upheaval and conflict for INTPs, their natural reactions may give you the appearance that they no longer have feelings for you. It is the intensity of the negative emotions that is fueling their withdrawal. Below, I'll describe common relationship situations, give you a sneak peek into the INTP consciousness, then suggest how you might respond. This article is focused on new and recently new relationships.
We want your frustrations, we crave your ramblings, and we strive to make sure that we are fully receptive to your feelings, thoughts, and wonders. Do we find them pointless because they are passing with our mood? INTP is about a process for interfacing with the world. A particular set of actions and skills that we rely on. INTP will have quickly and efficiently weighed and made decisions about many, many aspects the trip. That's why we throw ourselves totally into something, reach competency, then move on to something else. If we are always changing based on our growing understanding of the world, if we will always seek the new challenge and the next question, how can we possibly stay in one lasting relationship? For INTPs, the getting there is almost all the fun. What we really love is the basket of skills and actions and decisions that go into achieving goals.) I have received many emails over the last few months from people who are, or want to be, in a romantic relationship with an INTP. The good news is that what I'm going to talk about is straightforward. Because each person is entitled to have his or her own wants, needs, and love language.These frictions, once you see them, will be very easy to understand. When two people don't match up on these points (such as when two different types attract), the best possible outcome is that you meet in the middle.