The mother may seem inadequate in some cases, and the child may see the mother as the one who sent daddy away, and therefore responsible for her pain.
The mother was not good enough to “keep her man.” If the mother is abusive, then this makes women the enemy forever.
The mental, emotional and spiritual pain is very difficult to deal with because of the soul ties and the sin that broke the Lord's heart.
The first step in becoming free from the horror is breaking the soul ties in Jesus Name.
The context was so vague that no one was without confusion. When confronting a Jezebel, the subject may be changed five times in one minute. He seemingly has endless (nervous) energy and eagerly looks for opportunities to be in charge of projects. He always fools those whom he’s just met while those who have been victimized by his tactics stand by helplessly.
Although he will work hard, his motive is never pure, and eventually his secret agenda cannot be hidden. The fact that Jezebel can look you in the eye and lie just shows how strong and adamant this rebellious and recalcitrant spirit is. Ignores people A classic ploy of a controller is to ignore you when you disagree with him.
When a Jezebel apologizes it is in true repentance or acknowledgment of wrongdoing but rather “I’m sorry your feelings were hurt.” 2.
God has made man the leader, the one who forges ahead and makes decisions generally.
Every now and again you receive a teaching that transforms you, that helps you see things as they really are. And she/he has a partner – Ahab, the negotiator, the doormat, the one who will do anything for love and acceptance – whether it was right or wrong. Refuses to admit guilt or wrong A Jezebel spirit is never wrong, unless it is a temporary admittance of guilt to gain “favor” with someone.
I am sharing this, as it helped me know why I was continually hooking up with abusive men. To accept responsibility would violate the core of insecurity and pride from which it operates.
In all of my praying for vindication and understanding I find that I am much to blame for allowing myself to be used and abused and for ever allowing this man into my life at all.
The desire for love, for the romance, to be nurturing, or whatever, it is not worth risking one's soul for.