Okay, maybe change that into Tlajudas if you’re dating a Oaxacan. He will score tickets for the game and you will end up liking it, because seriously, it’s a bunch of muscled guys fighting each other in a speedo, a cape and a mask… He calls his friends and brags about how ‘la guera’, that is you, helped his uncle to prepare the ‘mole’ in the kitchen and in the meanwhile you realize that you haven’t even Skyped with your own family for over a week. Speaking with gestures when you can not find a shared language, finding places only the locals go to and learn about their customs and values. The experience of every new place is a step out of your comfort zone where I like to wander around until it feels like a second home.