She doesn't want to go any parties where there will be keg stands of any kind. She has real responsibilities and might need to put in long hours, but she's no longer the lowest person on the totem pole at her job, so she'll find it easier to make time for you and stick to plans. She's not going to call you and go on a tirade for an hour because you unwittingly scheduled an important meeting for the same time as her best friend's engagement party. ) By the time a woman is in her 30s, there's a decent supply of guys a few years younger who have their act together and make great boyfriends. She has a full life and is only going to settle down with someone as awesome as she is.19. She doesn't sleep with her contacts in or roll out of bed with a hangover on Friday mornings.