This site is full of scammers in my opinion, possibly run by scammers as a tight ship...a bit like the Black Pearl in Pirates of the Caribbean. I did chat with about 5 real people, with no success. 3) If they're "away on business" or deployed, they are not real. 4) If they text or call you at odd hours, even if you specify 'locals only', it's clear they don't know what time it is in your city; report them as a fake profile. Well he was married and still is and would not get a divorce. Well if someone does a search on him will find this. Because he had a person with a disability since she was 7 years old. Then several months later I opened another profile and again after 3 months it was suspended again for no reason.