Remember that we are the largest free online dating service, so you will never have to pay a dime to meet your soulmate. I just talked to a friend of mine about it yesterday. She said that is a minimum of 14 dates but she said she's on track for alot more than that so far she said she averages about one a week and has two this weekend. (I went out with an IRS agent from Fresno, thinking he's from Orange County.) For each date we were assigned, we were to meet at an upscale restaurant from their pre-designated list, with each one of us paying our own way.