Since this is my post, I will tell you that J was interesting and fun to talk to but surely we all knew after my first (and last) post about J that it was not going to work out. She wants to know how to deal with the uneven nook. Wait.” I walk into the garden so I can listen to Melissa. She switched dating apps from Hinge to Bumble, which only lets girls initiate. And the psychos in her prior dating history were all Ts. Melissa told her INTJ date that I said that about INTJ dates and after the first date he texted her: “I think your friend was right.” So Melissa is dating ENTJs.