You’re a little self-conscious about wrapping your hair at night in front of them for the first time but pfft, they better get used to it. Coming to terms with the fact that there are some things about being black that they will just never get, no matter how empathetic they are. As a result, degrees become intimidating when dating Black men.In White culture, education is valued and expected. Intimidation would come from low self esteem and personal issues with women, not from the color of your skin)For whatever reason, White men just don’t have children sprinkled all over the world like Black men.Thus, White men have no problem dating educated women with advanced degrees. And, if they do, most of them were married to the mother at some point.Sure, they divorce but you can only divorce if you at least attempt a marriage.I know black guys have a pretty high affection/tolerance for women who are 5’5″ and 190 lbs.but most white guys just can’t see their way to it.
That moment when you stop being reluctant to talk about race issues because, get real, you’re not dating an ignorant jerk. Another reason why black women dating white men, is because they believe that a white man could be better for family values.This is a very good reason for a black woman to start a relationship with a white man. People assume that just because your BF is white that you’re only into white dudes. Wondering if people are judging him for dating a black chick in the first place.