Find out if you and your spouse operate at the same speed.

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Inner beauty will stay with you for life whereas your outer appearance will fade away with time.

Are you pretty or do you think that you look like a diva?

And because you love them, none of it matters—because you only see the person you’ve come to know and love. It’s easier to ask these questions, so your partner will know how much you want to be involved in their life.

As time continues, however, you either part ways or grow old together, all while still learning new things every day.