Rule #1 Don’t “fix” her problems An important relationship rule for men who want easier relationships is to avoid the urge to try and “fix” her problems.
When the girl you’re dating starts venting about the people and things causing stress in her life, don’t just offer your solutions.
The same rule applies to texting and all other social media.
So NEVER ask men out by text, Facebook or on instant messenger.
Simply supporting her will create a stronger emotional connection between you.
This alone can automatically get her to start feeling better.
Our premise was that women who played hard to get got their man, while the women who showed too much interest didn't.
It also means every night is “date night.” So the way it used to work—with time to plan what you’d wear, where you’d take her, and so on—has changed. Keep a change of clothes at work, along with some deodorizing wipes and mouthwash, because who knows what’s in store.
“Sometimes women, like men, drop their standards so they can get what they want sooner,” Kerner says.
Or at least be very aware of what you share online - especially in the social media arena.
no more waiting "three days" after a date to contact your new love interest. If you had an amazing first date, text them the next day and let them know...