Earlier this month, it was revealed in a study by e Harmony that millennials are actually the generation who place the least emphasis on physical appearance when looking for a partner. And on dating apps, there’s not much more than looks to go by, so pictures are undoubtedly crucial. You could have a professional dating photoshoot, but if your budget won’t stretch that far, help is at hand.
The app automatically deletes your footage after five hours so don’t fall asleep or you’ll miss the replay. When you make the study of relationships your work as I do, you end up talking an awful lot about dating.So nothing was out of the ordinary when a female client in her 20s came to see me because she’d been blown off and hurt by a guy she really liked.“I saw his profile pictures, and I guess I should have seen the red flags,” she said sadly as she played with the zipper on her pink hoodie.The craziest part is that gender doesn’t seem to matter, because both men and women alike post pictures that send the wrong messages if their true goal is to find a good partner. Intelligence, attractiveness, and professional success are universal turn-ons, so it’s wise to be open about your strengths. The goal with your photos should be to show people your personality. (I don’t know about you, but the first guy sounds like a lot less trouble to me.)Ladies, You Too!I wish I could blame bad romantic judgment on just one gender, because that would mean there are fewer people out there making self-destructive romantic decisions.